Getting these three things right can make a huge difference and can spell catastrophe if your not careful. Your gal will treasure these things and will want to have them saved and cherished for the rest of her life.

Are you happiest when you just accomplished something and are given credit for a job well done? You finished a project or created something great? Your identity, your self-esteem, maybe your validated and encouraged in the best ways possible. Your woman, most women, are family centered and have a strong love and emotion basis. Knowing this will help you raise the bar when it comes to these 3 areas of romance.

The Proposal is first up as it can be simple, creative, private or public. However you do it, bottom line, make it special. Appreciate that proposing to her is the story told over many years many times to anyone interested. Women are interested. The joy and pride she shares is what you give her. Make it exceptional.

Secondly the ring is what she will adorn with pride and will often be the center of attention as a gesture of your love. Women have a preference on shape of diamond whether marquis, or round do your homework to find out. Then invest as much as you can afford. The good news today is that mens rings of titanium has significantly grown in choices, styles, and sizes. Today's modern man can choose mens wedding bands of titanium that include diamonds, inlays and color.

We guys sometimes struggle with The Vow. Putting our feelings and emotions to spoken words are not natural as they seem to be for women. Be sincere, thoughtful and encouraging. She will hang on each word, trust me. Keep her and the both of you together the focus as if know one else exists. You'll get it right if its from the heart.

Allow me to speak briefly about legacy. You see in life you get what you give. If you want an excellent life, be excellent. You are living a special history moment in your life and your fiance. We all have a legacy that we leave behind for future generations to appreciate. Make it a colorful one. Give it the respect and joy it deserves as you commit to marriage, family and God.

Do not slouch or take the Big 3 lightly. The journey is a special one and you have the power to make it extraordinary for her and your marriage.

Bottom line, it all matters. The proposal, the ring and the vows will set the foundation like a well built home. To the bride and groom, may your life be full, happy and prosperous.